Women are the worst

[Cunta Kinte]

I met this girl a couple months ago and one thing led to another. We've been dating for a month this Thursday and really shes everything ive been looking for. Problem is, shes just getting ready to graduate college. Secondly, instead of her plan of going to Nursing school after finishing up her four year degree she has decided to reenlist in the Army.

So tomorrow shes on her way to Cleveland to MEPS for testing and to sign the contract. In the short term nothing really changes but in a couple months she'll have to leave for Texas, for two years.

My dilemma is pretty simple, im very picky when it comes to women and I thought I found a good one but now shes leaving. The real problem being, I have no right to say anything about it, we've only been together a short time but it seems like a shitty deal on my end. When this all started she was going to be staying in the area at least to become a nurse and now shes detouring to Texas before going to Iraq.

Part of me wants to break things off now, it seems like its going to happen anyway. Am I out of line for being pissed off? I mean its a good deal, they're paying off close to $40,000 in tuition racked up over four years and it will set her up in the long term but she took a major 360 and didn't even mention anything until last week, after she made the appointment. I only found out about the actual day through her facebook status so it seems shes not even willing to address it with me.

It makes no fucking sense, fuck my life. Its amazing how fast you can go from a high right back down to nothing in short time span.

Cunta Kinte is officially emo...

Whats the next move in your mind, end it?

PS: No pics, sorry, kill me.

[gleet]

Pics?

Oh, never mind.

You should propose, and do it fast. Try to cry while doing it. Maybe take her to a ball game and do it at half court. A televised game is a plus. But hurry.

[Cunta Kinte]

Lolz, wackbag sympathy my last source of joy.

[Sam_Adams]

Well Texas is a pretty decent place to find work in a lot of fields.

If you think she REALLY is everything you want and you can see it working out and have no ties to your city(other than a job) then you might as well tag along.

You only live once.

But I don't know anything about relationships. I'm a fucking failure. I have dreams though.

[jackjack]

Proposal is a perfect idea, but I'd suggest the Erock route and do it at Disney. Tell her you want to take her there before she leaves, then set it all up with the staff so they have the characters waiting for you at the special place.

[croscoe]

Yeah man. You have every right to be pissed that she didn't mention it. That's really fucking lame. I wouldn't take to kindly to that kind of nonsense. Some chicks are really cool at first but then you start to see how they really are over time. Good luck and tread carefully as it could be a sign for bad shit to come.

[Chino Kapone]

Fuck her best friend.

[Nortonsmeatytit]

1. Forget her
2. Get drunk
3. Go Hoggin'

[Cunta Kinte]

She didn't really lie about it, she just has more bills then she can afford right now, mainly do to an ex-roomate who moved out and stuck her with the full rent.

I guess its a quick and easy solution, shes getting her debt whipped clean and COULD become a nurse in the military.

The real question and the entire point of this thread is, what to do?

Ride it out, have a good three or four months and lose her or end it now and save myself from the tearzzzz?

[THE FEZ MAN]

Fuck her best friend.

thats the way to handle it in my book... give her the most perverted fucking you can dream up,

[Cunta Kinte]

Her best friend is a guy.....

Guess i'll get some Crisco

[CousinDave]

End it now, and move on.

[Chino Kapone]

Bro, just ride it out and do not put too much emphaisis on the relationship. Just relax about it and don't worry too much. Enjoy it while you have it.

[Cunta Kinte]

It seems pointless now, last week everything was fine now I don't have two words to say to her.

I guess we'll have the "talk" when she gets back, although at that point shes already signed up so its pretty much pointless.

Woot, first solid relationship not based around just sex in a year and its down the shitter in a week.

[CousinDave]

Bro, just ride it out and do not put too much emphaisis on the relationship. Just relax about it and don't worry too much. Enjoy it while you have it.



If he ends it now, he won't have to buy her a Christmas and Valentines Day present.

She's leaving, why invest anymore time and money not to mention the emotional attachment in a relationship with a known expiration date.

[LBF]

I mean its a good deal, they're paying off close to $40,000 in tuition racked up over four years and it will set her up in the long term but she took a major 360 and didn't even mention anything until last week, after she made the appointment.



So......she's right back where she started??





Sounds like she's being pretty crappy about the whole deal. Apparently, the budding relationship means a lot more to you than it does to her.

[Cunta Kinte]

So......she's right back where she started??





Sounds like she's being pretty crappy about the whole deal. Apparently, the budding relationship means a lot more to you than it does to her.

180:p

She was humping my leg for a couple months before hand, I had slight interest but I wouldn't have even bothered if it was just going to be for a month.

Fuck it, I know logically you guys calling to "End it" are right, fuck I tell myself that but..

Im a queer

[Cunta Kinte]

If he ends it now, he won't have to buy her a Christmas and Valentines Day present.

She's leaving, why invest anymore time and money not to mention the emotional attachment in a relationship with a known expiration date.

I already bought the Christmas present... anyone want to go to a Wings vs Sabres game with me?:(

[kidconnor]

Dude, if she's that great spend the last 3 or 4 months with her. If/when she brings this up tell her your glad for her and just enjoy ... hanging I guess. Just go with it.. or else live with the regret. If she asks you to come or drops the L word FIRST , down the line, then take it from there. If not, and you can't get this out of your mind, and it effects the fun you were having....

Drop her, hit the booze, forget women for a while and enjoy being whatever age you are.

[CousinDave]

Im a queer

Well I doubt that comes as a surprise to anyone here.


But seriously, when you're emotionally attached to someone and then something like this happens, its like being punched in the chest, and there is no sense suffering through that for a few more months.

[oandapartycock]

Bro, just ride it out and do not put too much emphaisis on the relationship. Just relax about it and don't worry too much. Enjoy it while you have it.

X2.

Just don't knock her up! :action-sm

[abudabit]

What's she look like? What part of Texas is she moving to? What's her #?

[Glenn Dandy]

Her best friend is a guy.....

Guess i'll get some Crisco

Shes a closet lesbo... dump her.

Or, girls go into nursing to marry doctors. go directly to fucked, do not pass go, do not collect 200.00.


girls r like buses my friend... theres one by every ten minutes... find one that fits into your plan and stop crying over a mess. you just think you like her so much... in a few months you wont give two fucks... trust me.

[Jay Douglas]

I know someone who had a similar problem only he was told just a day before she enlisted. She also had some mental issues, so it was kinda easy for him to dump her. Too bad it wasn't until he had already bought her some $200 shoes. Yeah, you'll need those in the friggin' deserts.

Since I've never been in this situation, I can only give advice that comes to me. And that is put a bullet in her head before some Iraqi does it. True love!

[CousinDave]

Since I've never been in this situation, I can only give advice that comes to me. And that is put a bullet in her head before some Iraqi does it. True love!


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[weakside]

Sometimes two completely different things can be equally true. No, you don’t have any right to be mad at her. It’s her life and she needs to do what is best for her, just as you need to do for yourself. And yes, it’s a shitty deal and it’s ok to feel bad about it. Just don’t attack her for it. A man will support her decision even if it hurts.

Your two choices are to enjoy what you have left, wish her well, lick your wounds, and move on. For what it’s worth you will always be remembered as the guy with a lot of class. The second choice is to ask her to marry you. I know option two looks real good right now but think long and hard about whether this is really “the one” and not that you are still in the infatuation stage of your relationship. Sometimes people make rash decisions based on what we want right now rather than thinking of the future. We all do it sometimes, but marriage is too important to do it with.

On a side note, asking her to stay is not an option. It’s a selfish move and could backfire because if things don’t work out she will resent you for it someday (which isn’t fair to you as she is an adult and ultimately will have made that decision on her own, but still). Again, support her decision by either being a partner in it through marriage, or wish her well when it comes time to let her go.

[Cunta Kinte]

Sometimes two completely different things can be equally true. No, you don’t have any right to be mad at her. It’s her life and she needs to do what is best for her, just as you need to do for yourself. And yes, it’s a shitty deal and it’s ok to feel bad about it. Just don’t attack her for it. A man will support her decision even if it hurts.

Your two choices are to enjoy what you have left, wish her well, lick your wounds, and move on. For what it’s worth you will always be remembered as the guy with a lot of class. The second choice is to ask her to marry you. I know option two looks real good right now but think long and hard about whether this is really “the one” and not that you are still in the infatuation stage of your relationship. Sometimes people make rash decisions based on what we want right now rather than thinking of the future. We all do it sometimes, but marriage is too important to do it with.

On a side note, asking her to stay is not an option. It’s a selfish move and could backfire because if things don’t work out she will resent you for it someday (which isn’t fair to you as she is an adult and ultimately will have made that decision on her own, but still). Again, support her decision by either being a partner in it through marriage, or wish her well when it comes time to let her go.

The most sensible post in the entire thread, you win.

[Chino Kapone]

The most sensible post in the entire thread, you win.


You wanted sensible? Probably should have posted this question on the Dr. Phil Forum then.... :action-sm

[NikkorTheMonk]

Dude, fuck her sideways. Drink beer at parties with her. Play videogames with her untill 3am and fuck her some more. Enjoy the time that this chick chooses to spend with you and when it's time for her to go just tell her how much fun you had, give her a kiss on the cheek, tell her to call for anything night or day, and you'll have all those great memories to go home and rub one out too. If your cool and don't cry like a little bitch and blow snot bubbles as your gasping for air while asking her not to go then you get what you deserve, a chick who wants nothign to do with you.

It's callled being a friend.

[SatansCheerledr]

Fuck her mother. Nothing will help you move on and feel better than fucking her mother.

[Beeman99]

Your a kid, she's a kid, she's leaving to join the military and you're going to be staying where you are in college. Quit whining about it, fuck her a few more times, and move on. You know she's not going to "wait" and vice versa, so why mope around over it. You've been dating her for a month, so fucking what, it's not like you've been with her for years.

[patbattlefield]

Ah the total retardation of young love.

[gleet]

When I think back on all my failed relationships, I'm very fucking grateful none of them worked out.

[Cunta Kinte]

My youth doesn't allow me to look back, this is the best... thing... going.. today.

[Beeman99]

at your age, pussy shouldn't be hard to get, unless you're a fat mess, then good luck bro.

Honestly, she's leaving, don't worry about it. Shit happens, and there will be another whore waiting in the wings.

[patbattlefield]

My youth doesn't allow me to look back, this is the best... thing... going.. today.

Oh I'm sure it seems like the beginning and end of the universe and nothing anyone says can take away the way you feel. Get her pregnant see how it goes.

[Buster H]

My youth doesn't allow me to look back, this is the best... thing... going.. today.
Dude, I remember that feeling. Like PBF said, it probably hurts like hell and there is nothing anyone can say that will make you feel better.

I've found that the ones like you are talking about are the hardest to take. You haven't learned her bad tendencies and it's still new enough that everything seems great. Couple that with the fact that should it end, it is because of the distance.

You've got three real choices. End it now, hang with her until she leaves, or try to stick it all out and see where it goes. Regardless, you probably need to sit down with her and talk it out. Try not to sound too creepy/clingy/serious and see what she thinks about the whole thing. That will help you make your decision on which path to take. If you come off as too clingy/serious, you wont have the luxury of making the decision yourself. She will make it for you and I doubt you will like what she decides.

[Cunta Kinte]

Wow, so three months later, looking back at this thread..

After 4-5 months of being together nothing really changed. Sex didn't happen, we barely touched each other and she could never be honest with me. If she was pissed, I wouldn't know it, she would just avoid me for a couple days and act like nothing was wrong.

We got into a fight the day before New Years, not even a fight, she asked if I was mad at her and I said "Yes". That resulted in her driving away at 60MPH in a public park. The reason I was mad was that the night before we went out to get dinner. At the last minute, her 'Best friend" , a guy, called and said he was coming into town. I suggested that he come with us. Even though I had nothing in common with the guy, I as attempting to be nice to her friends.

So shes driving, im joking around with her friend, we're riffing and getting along which surprised me. Well apparently I said something wrong because right before we got to the restaurant she got pissed off. We were both pretty much broke but I had a gift card left over and since she was pissed, I used it on myself. That pissed her off even more, along with the $16 I spent on drinks for myself. Her friend ended up paying for some of her bill.

Later during the night of the park "incident" we made up through text and she said she would text me in the morning. Well it never happened, I waited till 5PM on New Years eve before I texted her asking what she was doing. She said "Im out with friends, I sent you a text earlier and you didn't respond, its too late now".

So she blew me off on New Years. Later that night, im on facebook and she gets tagged in like 20 pics by some random guy. Nothing incriminating. The next day she removed all of the pictures, for whatever reason.

In January, we had a major problem that probably should have ended the relationship. An ex of hers, that I reference later on, made plans to stay at her place for three nights in a row. Mind you this is a guy that is still in love with her, she took his V-card, although he has been with a girl for a year.

I told her that if he came for even a night, we would be finished. The major problem was that she said "Yes" to the guy without even asking or caring what I thought. I asked if I invited over some girls that I used to date to stay the night, would she care? She said "no, its not a big deal". In the end, he never ended up coming over. Her entire incentive from it was "Hey, i'll get free dinner out of it".

We worked passed that, although I probably should have taken that as a clue. Everything was pretty uneventful after that. The Army thing was still looming and it seemed like nothing was changing at all, we weren't any closer, she wasn't opening up and we weren't touching each other even though I stayed the night basically every night.

That went on till about a month ago. We ate at food at some place and got food poisoning. This was the day after we went to the Wings/Blue Jackets game in Columbus. That night I got a text saying "Im having an emergency, can you help me?" from her but I must have missed it in between shitting and puking my brains out. I send her a text in the morning, asking whats up and she said she went to the ER and that "Guy friend" took her. She made that point clear..

So after about a day, I go over to her place. Everything is fine and then for some reason she decides to test me. I didn't realize it at the time but its clear as day now. We were both getting our shoes on to go to the store and pickup some ice cream. As she was tying her shoes, she fell forward. She had a stomach cramp. I was pretty frustrated with her at this point, she liked to be the "tough guy" so I didn't even consider helping her up. After that happened, she asked me just to take her car and pickup the ice cream. I did and returned, we had some ice cream, things were fine.

We're watching Golden Girls(queer) and im laughing my balls off. She yells at me for laughing and shaking the couch. She asks me to move and says "Well you told me to be honest". I gave her a dirty look and said "Fine" and got up. I went to sleep and when I woke up in the morning things seemed to be fine. My mom called and asked if we wanted to go out for breakfast, I said sure.

We find my mom at a table, sit down and immediately she tells me that she had poured draino down my sink. I clogged the sink up from throwing up so much and I specifically asked her not to pour the draino down the sink because I knew I would have to clean the catch at the bottom. So I get a little upset, my mom gets pissed and my girl says nothing. For the next hour, she said nothing. My mom gets up to go to the bathroom and I say "That really pisses me off you know? I asked her not to do that" and my girl basically screams "I don't care... I don't want to talk about it".

My mom gets back and asks me to go pay the bill. I do and as I come back I notice they're talking and stop when I come to the table. I, being the asshole that I am say "Let me guess, you were talking about me as usual?" Mom says "No", girl says "What?". Nothing else is said.

The plan for that day was that we were going to rent some movies or something and go back to her place. But as we're heading out to the car she says "So, should I just take you home them?". I say "Fine".

She makes a quick pitstop on campus to pickup some notes and drives me home. We didn't say anything to each other the entire drive. As she pulls into my driveway, I say "You know, I really want to be the boyfriend that you want but you need to try a little once in a while." she says "Are you saying im not nice?" and I say "Not as much as you think". She starts to cry and says "OK..OK". I say "I'll talk to you later" and get out.

I send her a text later that night with no response. Later she sends me one, asking me to bring her hockey stick to the ice arena since she needs it. We usually went skating together Monday mornings. So I go skating alone, leave her stick in the office. I stop skating early just to avoid her but I end up running into her. She says "Hey" and I say the same, thats all.

Earlier in the day, I sent her flowers but they had yet to be delivered and due to circumstance take two more days to actually be delivered. That night I sent her a very long letter on facebook, basically outlining the problems in our relationship and the ways I could do things better and the way she could do things better.

She didn't respond to the letter or the text, the flowers or the one time I called her, this was all on Tuesday. Fastfoward to Friday the day before we were going back to Columbus to see another hockey game. She sends me a breakup message at 9am in the morning. The jist being, that shes going to be leaving for at least two years and doesn't want anything holding her back from her "big adventures". She also wanted to be friends still.

I send her a message back, basically calling her fucking selfish.. not for the Army thing but for doing this over the internet. After reading, she changes her status to single and then I see a message from her ex that says "I missed your call earlier, I'll call you later".

The next day, at like 6AM she changes her status to "Cody came knocking at 5:30AM tee hee!"

Apparently Cody was the guy that she took in place of me to the game. After that, about a week passed, the week of Valentines. That Friday I changed my status to "Everyone go to ******* bar on V-day, lets be single together" or something and I didn't think anything of it. So I go to the bar on V-day, stay till 2AM and guess who is at the bar? The bar she never went to before meeting me and shes sitting with a black guy. Shes also sitting at a perfect spot to see me and our table.

As I walk by, I hear her giving some pity party story about her ex boyfriend to said black guy. I didn't say anything to her but some of my friends did.

A couple days later im talking to a guy I know on facebook, he knows her through playing hockey with her and I. We're talking about a league im starting and somehow she gets brought up. He pesters me to talk to her, I refuse and then she comes online and stays online until I tell him to go fuck himself. I knew they text each other, so I assumed it was a work from the very beginning

Flash forward to last week, I organize I pickup hockey game and she asks if she can play. I say its fine and ask if she can bring anyone else. She says that the one guy who talked to me on facebook can come. I don't think anything of it.

When I get out to the rink, they're already there. She doesn't say anything to me and can't even look me in the eye. Hes acting like his normal self. Then I notice, they're acting like a couple. Joking around, ANYTHING he said got the loudest laugh I have ever heard from her. She was all over him. They stayed for about twenty minutes and left, I continued to play with my friends.

The next day I "Defriended" both of them on facebook and the guy sent me a friend request hours later. I sent him a message saying NO and he asked why not, I said "I separate myself from people I want to punch in the face".

The biggest problem with this guy is the fact that he was a running joke in our relationship. In the fall when we played hockey with him, the second we left we would make fun of him for his dumbass jokes and his overall lack of effort while playing. If I didn't want to do something with her she'd jokingly say "Fine, i'll call Jon, he'll do it!". She deliberatly found the one guy in the world that she knew I would hate to see her with and shes stuck to him.

Part of me wants to tell him and part of me doesn't care. Either way i'll just come off as the jealous ex boyfriend. She treats all of her friends the same way(Friend to their face, mean behind their backs).

And thats it... that was the last month of my relationship to a girl that I loved.. my first love.

I have no clue where to go from here... I got rid of her on facebook because I couldn't help but check her page constantly. She would constantly change her status to something that would be a dig towards me, like "Im FINALLY having FUN!".

No one is probably going to read this but I needed to vent, she broke my heart and if she called tomorrow I may just take her back.

CN: Girls are cunts and facebook is worthless

[BeerBelly]

and the lesson is nobody reads long fucking paragraphs

[Cunta Kinte]

and the lesson is nobody reads long fucking paragraphs

Its a three minute read, maybe twelve if you're from Jersey.

[THE FEZ MAN]

and the lesson is nobody reads long fucking paragraphs

x2

Its a three minute read, maybe twelve if you're from Jersey.

and in Philadelphia its worth 15seconds


i thought you were banned

[BeerBelly]

Its a three minute read, maybe twelve if you're from Jersey.

ok facebook is useless granted, I'm never going to use use it
anyone that reads this shoudn't also

[JoeyDVDZ]

How old a guy are you, Cunta? You sound a lot like a nephew of mine, he's 23 & every relationship he's ever been in reads like your lil story up there. Sheesh, you youngins fall in love with every piece of cootch you hook up with!:action-sm

[NikkorTheMonk]

Sooooo let me get this straight..... 15 of us told you there was a Copperhead in a tank. We told you not to stick your hand in there with out a glove on. What do you do, you stick your hand in the tank because you think your not going to get bit. So for that, you get this.


http://img214.imageshack.us/img214/6127/untitled33nq2.png

[JoeyDVDZ]

Two things:

You didn't knock her up...

and...

No STD's I assume.


As long as both these are true, you're gonna be fine.

[HummerTuesdays]

I read about 1/4 of your post, if that. My advice: go bang her friends

[croscoe]

shes sitting with a black guy.

http://i155.photobucket.com/albums/s290/croscoe/random/snoop.gif

[sniper2323]

Ok, I understand sticking and trying to make it work. But you need to learn when to fight, and when to throw in the towel.

I read your posts, and they sound simular to what I went through. It sucks man, Try marriage, seperation, devorce. Hell, she brought the guy friend to the final court hearing. I watched her pages, and attended counciling to try and make it work. She never went. I saw the same things, "Finally free", "I'm having fun again", etc.

Now let me tell you this, as we waited for court, she and her friend sat across from me, here is the zinger, it was a guy I counted as a "friend" and had talked to about our problems, and "Seemed" supportive. I tell you, I really wanted to kill them both, but being in a court house, with baliffs that are armed, and cops everywhere. It was at that point I realised, she isn't worth it. She wasn't worth my time. She was trying to hurt me, and I just didn't care anymore.

Fast Forward a couple months and then years. I found a lady, we dated for about 4 years, we lived together, and have been married for several years. I look back at what I put up with, and I say to myself, "You fool, you were a tool".

I am much happier now, and I am guessing, in a few years you will be too. It is a hard bullet to bite, but it is worth while.

Go fishing, play the field, etc. etc. etc.

(I'm glad my ex hooked up with a fat, heart problem, non-working ass, and he is younger then I am)

Good luck bro, "You can doooooo iiiiiitttttt!"

[Chino Kapone]

Go Fuck Ten Other Women... or GFTOW... forget about her... (of course, it is easier said than done) Guarantee she FB stalks you too. This is the thing... there are women out there whose ass's sit up a little higher than her, and their pussy is much tighter than hers. They will also be less cunty than this bitch was. She really was a bitch from the way you described her.

The one thing I got out of your long post(s) (took 15 minutes to read you long winded cunt) is that you gave her more value than she was worth. You put her on a pedestal, and thought of her on a different level. Generally when you do that to a person, they will always fail you. When you begin to think and treat the women you date like just another person, instead of the next best thing, then you will see that they don't affect you like this as much. And, just because ya'll had all this shit in common does not make you a good match.

Did you initiate sex? Or did you two just go to bed like an old married couple? It sounds like you had all these problems, but never had make up sex. That is extremely important. I used to antagonize my exgf just so I could grudge fuck her. She loved it.

Best advice.... Send her some poop. http://www.poopsenders.com/order/

[flyerfan116]

so...all this is over a chick you 'dated' for like 5 months and never had sex with? Either you are delusional in thinking yoiu were in a relationship or you are one dumb sumbitch. Sorry to be so blunt (but come on this is wackbag) I mean i've seen alot of people take alot of shit for pussy, but taking shit and getting no pussy out of the deal is just dumb, move on act like a man and go fuck till ur dick is red.

[Beeman99]

After 4-5 months of being together nothing really changed. Sex didn't happen, we barely touched each other and

either you are the dumbest person on earth, a fat mess, or a insecure douche. You stayed with this girl for 4-5 months, knew it wasn't going anywhere, never got laid, never got a hand job, never made it to second base???

How old are you, 12??

[umo]

Some guys need to sign up for a course in Leykis 101.

[Cunta Kinte]

either you are the dumbest person on earth, a fat mess, or a insecure douche. You stayed with this girl for 4-5 months, knew it wasn't going anywhere, never got laid, never got a hand job, never made it to second base???

How old are you, 12??


Ding ding ding ding

I don't know what to tell you man, I loved being around her and we were closer to each other than Ive been with anyone. We were basically just friends trying to force a relationship. I barely spent any money on her, so I don't actually know what her motivation was.

Chaulk it up to a learning experience, I should have just broken up with her before I wrote the first post in this thread but I was going to ride it out until the end.

My hatred for her has now given me a complete kick in the ass though. Gone out with two other girls since breaking up with her a couple weeks ago. Ive lost 30lbs, things are looking up.

[Chino Kapone]

So you never fucked her?

What. The. Fuck.

[Beeman99]

Ding ding ding ding

I don't know what to tell you man, I loved being around her and we were closer to each other than Ive been with anyone. We were basically just friends trying to force a relationship. I barely spent any money on her, so I don't actually know what her motivation was.

Chaulk it up to a learning experience, I should have just broken up with her before I wrote the first post in this thread but I was going to ride it out until the end.

My hatred for her has now given me a complete kick in the ass though. Gone out with two other girls since breaking up with her a couple weeks ago. Ive lost 30lbs, things are looking up.

if you are friends with a woman, and one night you kiss, and you laugh, and then you have to force a relationship, then stop. Some women are great as friends, some women are great a cum receptacles, and some women are great for relationships. Maybe this taught you the difference.

So you never fucked her?

What. The. Fuck.

more like

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[LBF]

Ding ding ding ding

I don't know what to tell you man, I loved being around her and we were closer to each other than Ive been with anyone. We were basically just friends trying to force a relationship. I barely spent any money on her, so I don't actually know what her motivation was.



My guess is she was looking for a guy that would hang on her every word, tell her how wonderful she is on a regular basis, be kind of fun to hang out with sometimes, yet still be able to ditch at a moment's notice without any repercussions and never have to do anything physical.

Basically, she wanted a doormat.

Congratulations.

[flyerfan116]

Ding ding ding ding

I don't know what to tell you man, I loved being around her and we were closer to each other than Ive been with anyone. We were basically just friends trying to force a relationship. I barely spent any money on her, so I don't actually know what her motivation was.

Chaulk it up to a learning experience, I should have just broken up with her before I wrote the first post in this thread but I was going to ride it out until the end.

My hatred for her has now given me a complete kick in the ass though. Gone out with two other girls since breaking up with her a couple weeks ago. Ive lost 30lbs, things are looking up.

How old are you?

I'm saying the kid is a virgin in which case you need to get laid

[Cunta Kinte]

How old are you?

I'm saying the kid is a virgin in which case you need to get laid


The thing is, im not a virgin. Before this I never even wanted to speak to a girl after we fucked. I treated them like garbage, fucked them and walked away, end of story. This was my first real attempt to find someone I actually liked being around because I was getting sick of the same old same old.

It didn't work out, it blows but I did get something from it.

Feel free to flame me guys, its not like I don't deserve it but im putting myself out there just to give you guys a laugh.

Im in my early 20s and this was my first real relationship outside of banging any random girl and never speaking to them again.

[Jsnhnsly]

This kinda reminds me of Mike who drove a Cavalier and worked in the dairy dept. who called in a few times when they first started on XM. Anyone remember that?

[Sam_Adams]

Cunta, changes your facebook status to random shit about how great a lay was. Like, "Finally, a girl who knows how to use her mouth," "Damn, that girl was tight,"
or maybe even "Not ALL girls leave a bad taste in your mouth."

But try your best to move on. She was a cunt and attention whore. She's too immature to worry about. Real people don't just spend all of their time talking shit about people behind their backs.

You can't trust anyone that is like that. And you sure as hell can't be in an honest relationship with a cunt like that.

[Cunta Kinte]

Cunta, changes your facebook status to random shit about how great a lay was. Like, "Finally, a girl who knows how to use her mouth," "Damn, that girl was tight,"
or maybe even "Not ALL girls leave a bad taste in your mouth."

But try your best to move on. She was a cunt and attention whore. She's too immature to worry about. Real people don't just spend all of their time talking shit about people behind their backs.

You can't trust anyone that is like that. And you sure as hell can't be in an honest relationship with a cunt like that.


Thats the thing, ive never met one girl in my life that wasn't the same way. It seems like all they do is talk shit about their closest of friends and act like great friends to their face. Im not oblivious, im sure she did the same with me and probably has some of the worst things to say about me now.

Im convinced that girls truly don't grow up until they hit 30. And by that time they're either married or have kids... destined for failure.

[BeerBelly]

Thats the thing, ive never met one girl in my life that wasn't the same way. It seems like all they do is talk shit about their closest of friends and act like great friends to their face. Im not oblivious, im sure she did the same with me and probably has some of the worst things to say about me now.

Im convinced that girls truly don't grow up until they hit 30. And by that time they're either married or have kids... destined for failure.
just shut the fuck up and be a person , girls will follow

[chumpy]

You've acknowledged all your problems with her and you've lost her proverbial weight off of your shoulder. Now grow up and stop whining like a little faggot. (This is coming from a gay man)

Find another girl and move on

[WOWmagnet]

You've acknowledged all your problems with her and you've lost her proverbial weight off of your shoulder. Now grow up and stop whining like a little faggot. (This is coming from a gay man)

Find another girl and move on

Good advice.............











for a faggot :action-sm

[Polack]

You've only been together for a little while, so just move on. She obviously doesn't feel the same way you do about the relationship otherwise she would have sat down and talked to you about the decision. Is your self asteem that low that you don't think you can get another broad just like her? Move on.

[JimsInfectedEye]

Women are definitely the worst. I've been with the same broad 22 years and to this day, she still puts too much ice in my cup. Three cubes is too many. And last week, the corners weren't folded properly on the bed. Stupid whore.

[B54]

You never fucked her? You weren't her boyfriend, you were her fag hag.

[kloraferm]

Women are definitely the worst. I've been with the same broad 22 years and to this day, she still puts too much ice in my cup. Three cubes is too many. And last week, the corners weren't folded properly on the bed. Stupid whore.
Well obviously you need to kill her :rolleyes:

[JoeyDVDZ]

Women are definitely the worst. I've been with the same broad 22 years and to this day, she still puts too much ice in my cup. Three cubes is too many. And last week, the corners weren't folded properly on the bed. Stupid whore.


"She spilled my coffee...."

[jimmyslostchin]

Dude look at the bright side, she's a chick in the army now, as soon as she lands in Iraq or Afghanistan every cock in a uniform is going to be tearing that up and you wouldn't have wanted her after that anyway.

[JoeFromS.Jersey]

I met this girl a couple months ago and one thing led to another. We've been dating for a month this Thursday and really shes everything ive been looking for. Problem is, shes just getting ready to graduate college. Secondly, instead of her plan of going to Nursing school after finishing up her four year degree she has decided to reenlist in the Army.

So tomorrow shes on her way to Cleveland to MEPS for testing and to sign the contract. In the short term nothing really changes but in a couple months she'll have to leave for Texas, for two years.

My dilemma is pretty simple, im very picky when it comes to women and I thought I found a good one but now shes leaving. The real problem being, I have no right to say anything about it, we've only been together a short time but it seems like a shitty deal on my end. When this all started she was going to be staying in the area at least to become a nurse and now shes detouring to Texas before going to Iraq.

Part of me wants to break things off now, it seems like its going to happen anyway. Am I out of line for being pissed off? I mean its a good deal, they're paying off close to $40,000 in tuition racked up over four years and it will set her up in the long term but she took a major 360 and didn't even mention anything until last week, after she made the appointment. I only found out about the actual day through her facebook status so it seems shes not even willing to address it with me.

It makes no fucking sense, fuck my life. Its amazing how fast you can go from a high right back down to nothing in short time span.

Cunta Kinte is officially emo...

Whats the next move in your mind, end it?

PS: No pics, sorry, kill me.
Just watch "Good Will Hunting" and then decide....

no but seriously folks...


Eh, you have no right to be pissed. Disappointed, sure you're within your rights there. Decide if it's worth enjoying her until she leaves. If it's not for some reason (too painful, or other) then just break it off.

[Three Hole Puncher]

Blah blah blah blah. I didn't bang her. Blah blah blah blah blah...

[DJ Evel Ed]

If they capture her in Iraq, they will remove her clitoris. Sounds like you need a few mm shaved off your clit too.

Why do you feed into her dumb shit? She's playing your ass and you know it.
When I was depressed over women I would go to Newark and bang the Honduran Hookers. YOU CAN ACT LIKE A MAN! WHATSAMATTERWITHYOU?!!

[Chino Kapone]

Women in Iraq = walking mattress

[CougarHunter]

Fuck the first thing you can find that will let you. If they won't let you, do it anyway, I won't tell.

Perhaps you can salvage some sense of manhood and rebuild.

[kidconnor]

Playing boyfriend while not actually getting the benefits of a boyfriend sucks bro. Especially when she is now giving treats to someone else. Learn and move on.

Or beg her to know why..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xs6uFtAozko