Child Support.

[Glenn Dandy]

OK.

I pay and I pay... In my mind it doesn't equal out.

I have paid my cunt around 50,000.00 ( for my son in a state run autistic facility) but lets not go there.

I owed 2500.00 two months ago..i paid 1000.00.

my payment is down to 240 a month.

I just checked it and its 2500.00 again.

theres something screwy going on with this arrears bullshit.

Who do I call to audit my child support? I can't go there Plumber against nig nog.... I need advice.

accountant? Who?

[d0uche_n0zzle]

A family law lawyer might help. But, methinks the nig nogs are fucking with you because you're whitey.

[Sinn Fein]

It still blows my mind that you are paying all of that money and it all goes into her pockets, none of it is for his care.

[Glenn Dandy]

You have no idea.... My sons accounts from SSI were directed to her account... my sons balance at the school has been 0 for two months.

trying to get to the bottom of that too.

she gets 600 a month from SSI. that was going to the school.

plus my money... and when i pick him up on the weekend he is dressed like a homeless person.
I don't think she visits him more than twice a year... I go every other week.

Having a penis is a real problem in the eyes of Camden court... Thanks again nig nogs:) for all you do. fucking.......

[d0uche_n0zzle]

Barter your plumbing skills for use of a woodchipper, no questions asked.

[Sinn Fein]

As has already been said, you need an attorney - a damn good one - if you ever want to get to the bottom of this mess.

[THE FEZ MAN]

your fucked, your best bet is to pay up bitch

[Glenn Dandy]

SINN.....hired a few... they already cost more than the support and we lost... remember i have a penis.

FEZ... Im not here bitching... I am asking WHO DEALS WITH THE ACCOUNTS! WHO COULD AUDIT SAID ACCOUNT ON MY BEHALF?

Kim? HUMMER TUESDAY... you wanted a new career....

I think these cunts in county's are ripping us dudes off... to a pretty tune.

[Sinn Fein]

Maybe the folks at SSI would be interested in hearing about the whole situation. It seems that if your money was being used to care for your son instead of paying for this bitch to get her hair and nails done, SSI wouldn't have to pay as much... Maybe unleashing the SSI bean-counters may do the trick.

[AngryPest]

How long ago did you pay the $1k? Could it not have shown up in the account yet?

Do you have the canceled check? You should be able to find out when your account was credited. Call the Department of Broken Dreams and ask for a supervisor.

[Nothing Sound]

I don't know what state you're in, but in Jersey the probation department enforces and takes care of all that shit. When I was paying through probation and had a problem I would just go down to the probation department and they would take care of it for me. Even when the bitch took me to court because she claimed I was behind 2 weeks, which I wasn't, the probation people took care of everything. No lawyer and it cost me nothing. That's what they do. That's what they're there for. I'm sure it's different in all states though.

[HummerTuesdays]

I don't know anything about child support, except that when an employee has it taken out of their check, it has to go right to the state.

First, I would gather all evidence of payment and see if you can get a statement showing all activity for your account. Try to reconcile it (Tina could probably help...isn't she good with numbers?). Or, maybe it would say right on the statement why you're bill is high again (late fees, penalties, etc?)

Second, do some reading on the NJ state web site & see what to do if you think you're being billed incorrectly.

Third, if you can't get anywhere, find a VERY reputable attorney. I wish I knew people in that area, but I only have references in Bergen County.

I'd love to help, but I wouldn't have any patience dealing with the nig nogs either. I'd probably lose my temper & make things worse for ya. :)

If you're still in a bind, let me know. I'll do my best to help.

[Nothing Sound]

Second, do some reading on the NJ state web site & see what to do if you think you're being billed incorrectly.

He pays in Jersey? If that's the case he should be paying through probation. I paid through them for years. They're the ones that keep all of those records. They can give you a print out and will even come to a hearing with you at no charge.

[Glenn Dandy]

Maybe the folks at SSI would be interested in hearing about the whole situation. It seems that if your money was being used to care for your son instead of paying for this bitch to get her hair and nails done, SSI wouldn't have to pay as much... Maybe unleashing the SSI bean-counters may do the trick.

I wish i could explain to you how fucked up this shit really is.( short try).She collected SSI after we broke up and left me with the kid. I went to SSI to get my due cause i had the kid... they told me she was already getting it. i was all ?? huh??

dude said cause of the money i made i wouldnt get crap. so i let her collect the bullshit money ..

for 4 years... she got married and lost her SSI... then sued me for support?

so i gave her the kid..... two years later she put him in a home... 50,000.00 later im still paying.


and she just abandoned my son.


but anywho... i need an auditor because this thread is suppose to be about watchdogging the child support system.

[Glenn Dandy]

He pays in Jersey? If that's the case he should be paying through probation. I paid through them for years. They're the ones that keep all of those records. They can give you a print out and will even come to a hearing with you at no charge.

dude numbers and me don't jive. You are telling me CAMDEN office is running great and is to be trusted? TOOFER?

I am getting fucked but i need someone who doesnt freak out when they see more than sesame street 1 - 10.

i can count money but my brain takes to long to compute numbers...i went once to Camden.. even got a white chic... but its very complicated..( the arrears the changes in payment... cost of living)...


I am not exactly dumb but this shit gets pretty complex.
HT i see that career you asked for.

theres a need.

In my mind I am probably 10,000.00 overpaid... and I probably have a warrant for my arrest right now.

[Cunt Smasher]

Girl I know is suing for sole custody because baby daddy basically abandoned him,you might look into it.But based on your past history with this,and with N.J., your prolly fucked.

[Glenn Dandy]

Sole custody?

He doesn't live with either of us.....Thats whats crazy.... I pay her because she has a pussy... We are on an equal playing ground.

visiting parents.

How do you sue for custody? I don't have custody... either does she.


SIDE NOTE* when I was young and stoopid.. I blamed my dad for my life.....My song to him was " Dyers Eve" Mettalica.

those same words I aimed at my Father are an Autistic Anthem.


Fuckin Roooooned my favorite Metallica song......fuck my cunt ex.. fuck autism...


SO WHAT SHOULD I DO??? lol


alright I gotta get up at 5 AM... and plumb in Trenton... FTW... night night.


So I can pay.. ( SARCASM) CHILD SUPPORT.

[Sinn Fein]

I wish i could explain to you how fucked up this shit really is.( short try).She collected SSI after we broke up and left me with the kid. I went to SSI to get my due cause i had the kid... they told me she was already getting it. i was all ?? huh??

dude said cause of the money i made i wouldnt get crap. so i let her collect the bullshit money ..

for 4 years... she got married and lost her SSI... then sued me for support?

so i gave her the kid..... two years later she put him in a home... 50,000.00 later im still paying.


and she just abandoned my son.


but anywho... i need an auditor because this thread is suppose to be about watchdogging the child support system.

That makes no sense. My stepson gets SSI and my wife and I both have pretty decent incomes. Your son is getting the SSI money, not your ex. It's just going to her because of how custody has been settled. That is the whole point. You gotta get someone to sort the whole situation out. Ignoring the rest of it and focusing on the bean-counting in Camden county isn't going to get you anywhere in the long term. You're keeping yourself in a position that allows you to continually get fucked over by your ex.

Here's how I see it:

1) You need to get custody. That's the biggest thing. The people who run the joint where your son is should be able to testify as to who the more "involved" parent happens to be - which is YOU.

2) By getting custody, you'll gain control of the SSI money and you won't have to pay the bitch another dime.

3) You son will be better off, and you will be better off.

[CousinDave]

She should be getting nothing, from you or the government, it all should be going to the "home" that has the kid.

You need to talk to the administrator of the facility that your son is in - those people know how to go after every dime they can get.

[Hoagie]

It's been said before but I'll say it again because it's the first step of the only route you have open. Get a lawyer.

None of the people involved respond to anything but the legal system and the legal system doesn't respond to plumbers. It responds to lawyers. And I know it sucks that you have to pay for a lawyer to stop getting ripped off but it's better then hoping for some miracle answer that doesn't exist to come along and dropping another $50k in the mean time.

[DonTheTrucker]

Hire a lawyer from a different town. Seriously. Find a family law attorney from Princeton or Newark or anywhere but your home town. You want a guy that's not tied into the local system.

There are also organizations out there that deal with fathers' rights. Maybe one of them has a website that helps.

I'm so glad my ex-wife isn't bad about support. I really feel bad for guys who are in situations like yours. It's tough to get ahead against a system that is designed to fuck you.

Try this website. NOT Meatspin. (http://www.fathersrightsinc.com/)

[rotten bastard]

contact probation or mediator and ask for a hearing on your account. bring pay stubs and receipts of all your payments if you feel your being hosed.
child support is a touchy subject with judges/mediators. make sure you make sense when you open your mouth.
you dont really need a lawyer.

[HummerTuesdays]

Glenn, if you can get the statement that shows what you've been charged, the paperwork that shows how much you SHOULD pay (the judgment from the courts??), and the support that shows what payments you made, I'd be happy to look at it for you. The best I could do is tell you what you have over paid or under paid, and if they're billing you correctly.

Beyond that, you'll need to go to the Probation (?) department and/or get a lawyer to settle the child support that you're currently responsible for.

If you want to get out of the support (which I totally agree with) find another attorney. See if you can find one that's fighting for men's rights/fair custody & support/etc. O&A had on some ass from NY...there's gotta be someone like that in NJ.

Oh, and I don't know how much it would help...but maybe you could get your local elected officials involved? See if you can find one (or more) that are paying out the ass in child support/alimony.

[Feral Niglet]

He needs an audit before he can go any further.

I told Mr. Dandy this last year ::hammer:


Lawyers: Just because he's jewish doesn't mean he knows what the fuck he is doing. Giving money to a bad jewish lawyer is like giving money to a crack whore because she promises "she'll change".

I have a number you can call:smackhead: