Honestly, I really feel sorry for you. I had dial-up, went to cable, back to dial-up and then back to cable and have not turned back yet. I do not see how dial-up users can stand it but I understand that maybe some thing better is not available or that in my case, you are not able to afford better. I feel your pain, kinda.
if you open a flash game, then view the source for the page, you can find the site that's hosting the .swf file. You can then go there, and save that particular page locally. (I think that's how I collected all those soundboards!)