Going on a first date thread

abudabit

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If you're going on a first date with someone / just went on a first date post here.


If you are going

When is the date?
Are you excited?
How do they look?
Think you'll have a good time?
Where did you meet?
What are you going to do?
Plan on getting laid?


If you went

When was the date?
0 is a bad date and 10 is a perfect date, rate it:
What happened, what did you do?
Did you hug / kiss / fuck at the end?
Think you'll see them again?
Want to see them again?
 

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First of all, abudabit, you never let on how much you like a girl. "Oh, Debbie. Hi." Two, you always call the shots. "Kiss me. You won't regret it." Now three, act like wherever you are, that's the place to be. "Isn't this great?" Four, when ordering food, you find out what she wants, then order for the both of you. It's a classy move. "Now, the lady will have the linguini and white clam sauce, and a Coke with no ice." And five, now this is the most important, abudabit. When it comes down to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV.
 

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When is the date? Saturday
Are you excited? No, I'm on the rebound so I'm very calm.
How do they look? Very cute, nerdy
Think you'll have a good time? Yep, although she might be bit shy
Where did you meet? In the neighborhood
What are you going to do? Drink at a nice little dive bar
Plan on getting laid? I'm open to it, but it probably won't happen.
 

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1. Never take a woman to your favorite restaurant on a first date. If things don’t work out or they end badly you will forever link the bad experience to your favorite place to eat.

2. It is always ok to tell a woman you are interested in getting to know her better/more.

3. Never refuse a woman’s request to dance.

4. Asking to “Just come in and use the bathroom” is the Hail Mary of romantic moves.

5. Women love to talk, and they epically love to talk about themselves, so let them. Redirect conversation back to the woman and ask open ended questions about there feelings and emotions. It will give the perception that you care.
 

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1. Never take a woman to your favorite restaurant on a first date. If things don’t work out or they end badly you will forever link the bad experience to your favorite place to eat.
Wise words.

My brother made this rookie move when we lived out in the Hamptons(Hoo Hoo) one summer. He started dating this nutty broad, and he took her to our favorite watering hole in Easthampton. After about three weeks, he realized what a nutjob she was and he dumped her... she stalked him like a complete psycho for the rest of the summer. She'd just happen to be in our favorite bar... every night of the fucking week. We had to find a new joint. I still haven't forgiven him for that rank amateurism.
 

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Where you go and what you do is of secondary importance on a first date. Do something both of you are comfortable with and you'll do fine.

My best first date wasn't even really a date at all, and I had the time of my life. It's all about the other person. If they're right for you, you'll know it almost immediately if you're lucky.
 

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Take her to see a Swedish porn flick, that always works out well on a first date:

 
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5. Women love to talk, and they epically love to talk about themselves, so let them. Redirect conversation back to the woman and ask open ended questions about there feelings and emotions. It will give the perception that you care.


Great advice.

Don't forget to talk about yourself a little though. Women like a confident man with attention to detail. Try something like this.....

My name is abudabit. I'm 27 years old. I believe in taking care of myself with a balanced diet and rigorous exercise routine. In the morning if my face is a little puffy I'll put on an ice pack while doing stomach crunches. I can do 1000 now. After I remove the ice pack I use a deep pore cleanser lotion. In the shower I use a water activated gel cleanser, then a honey almond body scrub, and on the face an exfoliating gel scrub. Then I apply an herb-mint facial mask which I leave on for 10 minutes while I prepare the rest of my routine. I always use an after shave lotion with little or no alcohol, because alcohol dries your face out and makes you look older. Then moisturizer, then an anti-aging eye balm followed by a final moisturizing protective lotion.


Go get'em tiger. ;)
 

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Great advice.

Don't forget to talk about yourself a little though. Women like a confident man with attention to detail. Try something like this.....

My name is abudabit. I'm 27 years old. I believe in taking care of myself with a balanced diet and rigorous exercise routine. In the morning if my face is a little puffy I'll put on an ice pack while doing stomach crunches. I can do 1000 now. After I remove the ice pack I use a deep pore cleanser lotion. In the shower I use a water activated gel cleanser, then a honey almond body scrub, and on the face an exfoliating gel scrub. Then I apply an herb-mint facial mask which I leave on for 10 minutes while I prepare the rest of my routine. I always use an after shave lotion with little or no alcohol, because alcohol dries your face out and makes you look older. Then moisturizer, then an anti-aging eye balm followed by a final moisturizing protective lotion.


Go get'em tiger. ;)
Don't forget to break out the Huey Lewis cds.
 

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1. Never take a woman to your favorite restaurant on a first date. If things don’t work out or they end badly you will forever link the bad experience to your favorite place to eat.
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never take you first date to buffalo wild wings or famous dave's bbq.
 
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Rule #1: Take a fucking shower.
 
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just try to keep it casual. If I get all psyched up before a 1st date, I usually feel like I'm coming off like a creep.
 

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Bah. No more dating for me. Dating could lead to a relationship, which leads to love, which leads to pain in my case. So, I'm happy with a good effin' every now and then.
 

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I hope I never have to go on another first date again the rest of my life. Just sayin....
 

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From:
http://www.datingtips.ws/showtip.php?tipid=12
First Date Ettiquite by Chris
(a) Turn off your Mobile, if you forget to turn it off and it rings,
turn it off without checking who was calling and apologise.

(b) Sit facing away from the rest of the resturant, this will show
that you have your full attention on her and your eyes wont be
tempted to wander to other people crossing your path.

(c) Do not steal glances at her breasts if she is wearing a low cut
dress, she will notice and most likley will lose respect for you.

(d) Tell her what you are thinking of ordering while you are looking
at the menu and ask her opinion while choosing a wine but don't ask
her to select a specific bottle.

(e) Pay quickly, without consulting her. And never ask what you
should leave as a tip.
 

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Great advice.

Don't forget to talk about yourself a little though. Women like a confident man with attention to detail. Try something like this.....

My name is abudabit. I'm 27 years old. I believe in taking care of myself with a balanced diet and rigorous exercise routine. In the morning if my face is a little puffy I'll put on an ice pack while doing stomach crunches. I can do 1000 now. After I remove the ice pack I use a deep pore cleanser lotion. In the shower I use a water activated gel cleanser, then a honey almond body scrub, and on the face an exfoliating gel scrub. Then I apply an herb-mint facial mask which I leave on for 10 minutes while I prepare the rest of my routine. I always use an after shave lotion with little or no alcohol, because alcohol dries your face out and makes you look older. Then moisturizer, then an anti-aging eye balm followed by a final moisturizing protective lotion.


Go get'em tiger. ;)
Best advice of the thread!!! ;):action-sm
 

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oh no not more bad dating advice!
 

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My name is abudabit. I'm 27 years old. I believe in taking care of myself with a balanced diet and rigorous exercise routine. In the morning if my face is a little puffy I'll put on an ice pack while doing stomach crunches. I can do 1000 now. After I remove the ice pack I use a deep pore cleanser lotion. In the shower I use a water activated gel cleanser, then a honey almond body scrub, and on the face an exfoliating gel scrub. Then I apply an herb-mint facial mask which I leave on for 10 minutes while I prepare the rest of my routine. I always use an after shave lotion with little or no alcohol, because alcohol dries your face out and makes you look older. Then moisturizer, then an anti-aging eye balm followed by a final moisturizing protective lotion.


Go get'em tiger. ;)
:haha7::haha7::haha7:
 

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First date should be somewhere casual, like a coffeshop close to your house. Tell her to meet you over at your place so you dont have to wait on her. When she comes to the door, invite her in for just a second, grab your things and get out the door. Dont show her around the house, just let her pop in for a second. this will keep her curious on what you have goin on.

Take her to the coffe shop or whatever, and make it seem kinda causal, but dont act like you are too in to her to quick. (i do that way too much). Always end the date on your terms, make the date only 30 min or an hour long. Dont linger longer and try to hang out with afterwards. Just tell her you have a few other things to do, this will keep her thinking you have a life outside of just this date. This will make her wonder why you dont want to hang out longer like every other douche she has dated. She will sit and wonder "why isnt her attracted to me" and blah blah blah. so this will make her try harder to attract you. ya gotta build up the idea that she needs to qualify herself good enough to be with you, and that she inst the one qualifiing you. This will naturally make her more attracted to you.

Just remeber dont be clingy on the first date and try and go too far too quick.
 

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When was the date? 2 weeks ago
0 is a bad date and 10 is a perfect date, rate it: 8
What happened, what did you do? We went for Ice Cream, then we went to a comedy club, and then we had dinner.
Did you hug / kiss / fuck at the end? Hug
Think you'll see them again? Seeing her again tonight.
Want to see them again? Definitely
 

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I asked Suzy to ask Jenny if she likes me because I like her and I wanted to know if she likes me, but not just likes me, but likes likes me because I think I might really like like her. So anyway, Suzy came up to me in homeroom and said that Jenny said the she likes me ok, but doesn't like like me in that way and just wants to be friends but that Holly really like likes me and thinks that I am way far out groovy and that I should ask her to go get a chocolate malted after school. I wasn't too sure about Holly but I thought "golly, she might be a nice girl and she does think that I am really happening in a far out way, so what the heck darnit" and I called her up and asked her out. We had a really groovy time. do you think she will go to the big 6th grade sock hop with me?
 

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I asked Suzy to ask Jenny if she likes me because I like her and I wanted to know if she likes me, but not just likes me, but likes likes me because I think I might really like like her. So anyway, Suzy came up to me in homeroom and said that Jenny said the she likes me ok, but doesn't like like me in that way and just wants to be friends but that Holly really like likes me and thinks that I am way far out groovy and that I should ask her to go get a chocolate malted after school. I wasn't too sure about Holly but I thought "golly, she might be a nice girl and she does think that I am really happening in a far out way, so what the heck darnit" and I called her up and asked her out. We had a really groovy time. do you think she will go to the big 6th grade sock hop with me?
Oh, you said SOCK hop....never mind.
 
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