I Just Wish He Would Have An Affair!

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Monique Honaman

I Just Wish He Would Have An Affair!

"My husband is so nice. He's a good guy. I just wish he would have an affair!"
I have heard these comments, or comments very similar to this, numerous times lately. What's going on? I'm not sure I have an answer. In fact, I know I don't have an answer. This isn't about having an answer. This is about laying out some thoughts and observations on this theme that seems so relevant and prevalent.
Several different women have contacted me recently and have shared their stories, and their stress (perhaps distress would be a better word) over the fact that they do not want to be married anymore. Period.
These women are done. They say they aren't happy. They say they aren't in love with their husbands (or any other man -- they aren't having affairs). They say they simply wish they were no longer married to him. They aren't fulfilled. They wonder if this is how they are doomed to live the rest of their lives (and God-willing, most of them have another 40+ years ahead of them).
The common factor amongst all of these women is that they say that their husbands are really solid, good, nice men. They are not victims of physical or emotional abuse. They are not married to felons. They are not married to alcoholics or drug addicts. Their husbands are not having affairs. In fact, they tell me, there really isn't anything "wrong" with their husbands ... they just don't want to be married to them anymore because they have fallen out of love. It's actually a depressing conversation. When did we all become so unfulfilled with life?
And we are talking about women here, so here comes the "guilt." Women have guilt covered -- and these women are no different. They feel guilty as all get out and wonder about what everyone else will think should they decide to leave this "nice" guy. They wonder about the impact it will have on their kids, their extended families, their circle of friends. Deep inside they feel selfish and ask, "What gives me the right to leave my husband when he has done nothing wrong?" And almost immediately after they verbalize that thought, I get this zinger: "I just wish he would have an affair."
Really? You wish your husband would go out and have sex with another woman because then you would be justified in wanting to leave him? If you think about it, there are so many things wrong with that whole series of events. Would you ever imagine when you took your wedding vows that you would one day find yourself hoping your husband would cheat on you? Seriously?
I am not purporting to have the answer on this one. There are certainly some heated viewpoints on both sides of this debate.
One viewpoint is, "Suck it up, you made a vow, you made a commitment, stay married for the sake of the kids, doesn't 'until death do us part' count for anything?"
Another viewpoint is, "You only live once, people change, you shouldn't have to live unhappy and unfulfilled, the kids need to see what a happy, fulfilled marriage/partnership looks like."
And, of course, other opinions abound. What is your opinion? I know you have one and I would love to hear it!

The comments are what REALLY shows the stupidity of women.


Comments:
KitKat1205

I have been married twice, and both times I was thoroughly miserable. My husbands, however, were not "perfectly nice guys." They were both, in their own ways, controlling jerks who loved to put me down and make me feel small. I used to wish the second husband, Bob, would have an affair just so he would leave me alone and not badger me for sex every single day. For a while, I was thinking I could endure marriage if only there was no sex, which I found to be a humiliating nuisance. "Oh, is it time to take my clothes off? Let me finish washing your dirty underwear and dishes first, honey."


Since leaving my second husband, I have been basically asexual. I haven't dated, nor do I have any desire to. I am perfectly happy with my life without men and don't see that changing. I just don't GET marriage: how in the world can any woman be happy picking up one man's dirty underwear and being told by one man where to go, what to think and what to do for the rest of her life. Oh, and the joys of sex on command. That's what marriage seems like to me.
I'd rub those skidmarks right into her face!



SADLYME

The grass is not always greener on the other side. We have been married 25 years and she wants out now. I will admit i have made mistakes, but so has she. How can you always feel as if you are alone because her friends come first. How can the kids see the dad doing everything in the house including the sports while the mom is on the phone 24/7. And i do mean 24/7. I do love my wife. I still want the family to stay together. But she doesnt. I guess the fact that 98% of her friends are single divorced moms doesnt help. Misery must really love company. So here i am in my early 50's, having to start my life all over again. This sucks.


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You're cunts being cunts! You deserve a guy who beats the shit out of you if a "nice guy" bores you and you want a divorce. Womenfolk sure are stupid nowadays.
 

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The Women's Movement has just created two generations of spoiled brats.
 

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Girls secretly love guys who can beat the shit out of them, they'd just never admit it. Male dominance is looked down upon by society more than ever, so of course they're unhappy. This is what feminism gets you, ladies.
 

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Girls secretly love guys who can beat the shit out of them, they'd just never admit it. Male dominance is looked down upon by society more than ever, so of course they're unhappy. This is what feminism gets you, ladies.
They love the sense of danger until it all becomes real.
 

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Should have never given them bitches the right to vote. Its been downhill ever since.
 

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If you asked those cunts, "What makes you happy?", here are the answers I guarantee you'd get...


1. Spending money I don't have on shit I don't need.

2. Cake and ice cream.

3. Obsessing over my children and/or living vicariously through them.

4. Nothing.
 
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So basically, this cunt wants her husband to cheat on her so she has a reason to divorce him and take 50%+ of his shit. Without him cheating she really has no grounds for a divorce that ends up with her getting most of what he worked for.
 

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So basically, this cunt wants her husband to cheat on her so she has a reason to divorce him and take 50%+ of his shit. Without him cheating she really has no grounds for a divorce that ends up with her getting most of what he worked for.
It's the cunty cunt portion of them.
 

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I wonder how much the poor saps who married these cunts spent on engagement rings, the dream wedding, and all the other horseshit.
 

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I put up a troll post about prenup agreements. I can usually get woman to lose their minds when I tell them marriage is for suckers and the only way I would marry a broad is if their was a prenup agreement were she would get nothing. I hope to be amused very soon.
 

billfromavenel

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I wonder how much the poor saps who married these cunts spent on engagement rings, the dream wedding, and all the other horseshit.
Spent about a grand on the ring we were married by a judge had a reception in the bar by our apartment. My cunt of an ex-wife left me for this reason I treated her to well she wanted to live with a thug type motherfucker so that's what she has now heard from her sister that mister thug has knocked out her front teeth and sent her to the hospital a few times since they moved in together
 

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Wow, my comment was not allowed despite there being no cursing. I'm sure it fell into the offensive category when I suggested all men get prenup agreements or they were suckers.
 

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TLDR: Spoiled cunt wants to ruin the entire life of an admittedly nice guy because she is no longer entertained by and sexually attracted to him 24/7. Boo hoo, I am not happy with my very nice husband who isn't a drunk, isn't a drug addict, pays the bills, is a good father, and a great husband! Woe is me!