Injury vs Cheating

Which would you choose?

  • Injured in an accident

    Votes: 10 28.6%
  • Cheating

    Votes: 25 71.4%

  • Total voters
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#1
Today was one of the rare occasions where i completly disagreed with my boy Ronnie.

I would definatly choose the injury in an accident over cheating for my spouse.

I wouldn't go as far as the mortal injury, but pretty much any other injury I would take over cheating.



By cheating though, I don't mean "any sexual interaction with another person" I mean going behind your back and doing it.

My wife and I have partaken in swinging on occasion, but in our oppinion that is completly different than cheating.

What do you baggers think.
 

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Didn't the argument start the opposite way? Would you rather have your partner cheat on you or them get in a bad accident?
 

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I can't believe there are people out there that sided with Dave on this one. Even if I found my wife with five black guys I would never wish harm on her. I would say the relationship is over but the memories we had together would still make me want to try to work it out. If you truly love someone you would look beyond a mistake and work it out. If the other person refuses to fix these issues that is when you leave. Sex is human nature and trying to make an animal like a human stay with one single person is ridiculous. It's hard enough to live with a person let alone only have sex with one person for the rest of your life. Accidents happen. A strong person can look beyond it and move on.
 

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Well with injury you can get damages which is a plus. But I wouldn't want my chick to be in pain, deal with possible irreparable harm, might lose a limb, be scarred, paralyzed, in pain for life.

Provided the cheating doesn't give her an STD or a baby, I'd totally prefer her to cheat. Emotional cheating is a problem for me; physical cheating not so much. She gets another cock, it's over and done with, that's so much more better to me than her being in harm or pain.
 

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I have to side with ESD on this.

I say that Modern Medicine can heal broken bones, but it can not mend a broken heart.
 

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I wound never want the death of the wife of my children.
 

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I have to side with ESD on this.

I say that Modern Medicine can heal broken bones, but it can not mend a broken heart.
can it mend someone being paralyized????? you people are crazy!!!!! :action-sm
 

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can it mend someone being paralyized????? you people are crazy!!!!! :action-sm
I don't think the severity of the accident was established. I think a point of reference needs to be established.
 

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I can answer this question very easily, as I have exp. most of the answer choices. From '86 to '94 my HS sweetheart and I dated, and later got engaged. When we first started dating, I was made aware that she suffered from a mild and fairly uncommon form of epilepsy (almost since birth). For the first 3 yrs we were together, she only exp. one or two grand mal siezures, but she recovered quickly from them, along thousands of petite mal siezures.

In '89, while she was attending the local community college (she had come back home from attending school out of state to help care for a sick family member), she got involved in a tutoring program. In July '89, she and I had a huge fight, almost broke up, well, that night while tutoring this guy, they got into a discussion about her being in a shitty mood. He invited her out for a drink, 3 drinks later, she agreed to go back to his place with him. She ended up spending the night, according to her, they fucked probably 3 to 4 times in 7 hrs. She told me about it two days later, we split up almost immediately, but within a week, we got back together, it took some serious counsuling and about a year to get our relationship back on track. While I was broken hearted over what happened, eventually I did forgive her (it also helped that about 2 yrs after this we got into swinging, but that's another story), and all seemed well.

Then, in '93, she slipped and fell going down a flight of stairs, broke her right ankle in 3 places, spent 4 days in the hospital. After she came home (she was living with her mom), we thought all was fine and she would get back to normal. Then after about a week, she began exp. grand mal siezures almost on a daily basis, sometimes 2 to 3 times a day, after 4 days she had to be hospitalized for 5 weeks until they could get them under control. It turned out that when she fell, she had exp. a head injury that aggravated the already existing condition. Watching her suffer in the hospital was the worst thing in the world, every day, when I got off work I went to the hospital to be with her. I would be there from 3pm until 11pm, then her mom would be there from 6am til 3pm, but it was agonizing. For the first two days she was in a medically induced coma, then they had her on a mild sedative 24 hrs a day for a week, then they slowly weaned her to normal. For that first week or so, at times, she seemed like a vegetable, barely able to speak, barely able to recognize her mom or myself. UNable to recognize her sister, or a couple of other friends and family members. Over the course of the next 18 months, she went through 7 medication changes, 3 nuero-surgeries, and two more prolonged ( more than a week in length) hospital stays for siezures. Finally, around Christmas of '94, when it became clear that she would never lead a normal life (13 yrs later she still is unable to work, drive, and at time care for herself), she decided that we should end the relationship and move on. We could and are still friends, but it would never be anything more, she could not stand the idea of dragging me down, and tying my life up for good. Well I can't say it would totally not be anything more, she is still attractive and enjoys sex, and there have been the occasional booty call, but that's it.

So, from my perspective, I would most definetly choose cheating.
 

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BTW, I posted a similar poll on a swingers website my wife and I subscribe to, over 300 views, 33 people have responded cheat, 0 maimed and 2 for death.
 

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The question comes down to this. Which is more important: your chick's health or your own ego.
 

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Which swingers website?

I still say injury though.. Although i have stated If it's "fatal" i would go for cheating.

I say this because trust is the most important thing to keep a relationship going.

I have no prblem if my wife wants to have sex with another man (or woman as it usually is her desire) as long as it's communicated between us and agreed upon.

Swinging/swapping/threesomes don't qualify as cheating to me. but it would be OVER if she cheated on me. (maybe because of the understanding that if she wanted sex, she could have it with permission)
 

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Today was one of the rare occasions where i completly disagreed with my boy Ronnie.

I would definatly choose the injury in an accident over cheating for my spouse.

I wouldn't go as far as the mortal injury, but pretty much any other injury I would take over cheating.



By cheating though, I don't mean "any sexual interaction with another person" I mean going behind your back and doing it.

My wife and I have partaken in swinging on occasion, but in our oppinion that is completly different than cheating.

What do you baggers think.
I have to side with ESD on this.

I say that Modern Medicine can heal broken bones, but it can not mend a broken heart.
anyone who agrees with you guys is a selfish prick who fucking deserves to be alone

I can't believe there are people out there that sided with Dave on this one. Even if I found my wife with five black guys I would never wish harm on her. I would say the relationship is over but the memories we had together would still make me want to try to work it out. If you truly love someone you would look beyond a mistake and work it out. If the other person refuses to fix these issues that is when you leave. Sex is human nature and trying to make an animal like a human stay with one single person is ridiculous. It's hard enough to live with a person let alone only have sex with one person for the rest of your life. Accidents happen. A strong person can look beyond it and move on.
Although I agree that I would much rather be cheated on than have to go through watching the person I love hurt BUT the "truly love" shit is way off IMO. IF a person truly loves you they dont cheat or stray if they do thats a serious betrayal that in my eyes is almost unforgivable. Does that mean if AF fucked someone else i would totally cut her off, I dont know, but it would be hard for me to forgive that and move on ever.

You say a strong person moves on I say a strong person fights those urges and stays true to their feelings and the person they love



The question comes down to this. Which is more important: your chick's health or your own ego.
Fucking liddyrules is the smartest man on earth
 

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I was actually one of those people that emailed ron agreeing with dave, his original statement was the exact same thing I was thinking; I would rather be physically hurt than hurt balzac by being unfaithful, as much as I dont want to see balzac physically hurt, Id be a hypocrite if I said Id rather him cheat. I guess what clinches it is that I would never talk to balzac again if he cheated, so we would both be hurt either way, at least with a physical injury we can move on, if he cheated the pain of having to leave him would last a very long time, and I guess Im assuming the same for him. This is all based on the hypothetical that he'd recover from the physical injuries. physical is easily forgotten.
so heres a hard one, would you rather be a gimp and spend the rest of your life with the person you love, or be perfectly healthy without them?
 

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so heres a hard one, would you rather be a gimp and spend the rest of your life with the person you love, or be perfectly healthy without them?
does my dick still work? and if yes do I get a sympathy blow job every day for being fucked up?
 

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Although I agree that I would much rather be cheated on than have to go through watching the person I love hurt BUT the "truly love" shit is way off IMO. IF a person truly loves you they dont cheat or stray if they do thats a serious betrayal that in my eyes is almost unforgivable. Does that mean if AF fucked someone else i would totally cut her off, I dont know, but it would be hard for me to forgive that and move on ever.

You say a strong person moves on I say a strong person fights those urges and stays true to their feelings and the person they love
True love is unconditional love. If you truly love AF you would look beyond the simple mistake and continue with the love you have for her. If my wife betrayed me I would forgive her and move on. The only time I would leave her is if she stopped showing me unconditional love. We are people and people make mistakes. You and AF go out drinking, if you and her got into a small argument and you left, and lets say she was having a good time with the other baggers and R and F chicks at the party, would you cut off the relationship if you found out she got blitzed and slept with some douchebag cause she was not in her right state of mind to make a smart decision? I don't know you from a hole in the ground but I think you would still have that love for her and could look beyond something she did that didn't please you.
 

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I guess what clinches it is that I would never talk to balzac again if he cheated, so we would both be hurt either way, at least with a physical injury we can move on, if he cheated the pain of having to leave him would last a very long time, and I guess Im assuming the same for him.
Awwwww!

 

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AWWWWWWW!
You and AF go out drinking, if you and her got into a small argument and you left, and lets say she was having a good time with the other baggers and R and F chicks at the party, would you cut off the relationship if you found out she got blitzed and slept with some douchebag cause she was not in her right state of mind to make a smart decision?
that's where our opinions differ, its not a smart decision, its the only decision, ever, even if you coked out of your mind, drunk as fuck, and rolling on e. If you remember cheating when you were fucked up, you were conscious enough to remember you love and respect your gf/bf
 

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True love is unconditional love. If you truly love AF you would look beyond the simple mistake and continue with the love you have for her. I would love her regardless if our relationship was over or not, I dont see fucking someone else as a simple mistakeIf my wife betrayed me I would forgive her and move on. The only time I would leave her is if she stopped showing me unconditional love. We are people and people make mistakes. You and AF go out drinking, if you and her got into a small argument and you left, and lets say she was having a good time with the other baggers and R and F chicks at the party, would you cut off the relationship if you found out she got blitzed and slept with some douchebag cause she was not in her right state of mind to make a smart decision? Personally I can't excuse being fucked up if you cheat, I have been FUCKED UP, weather it be drunk or tripping balls and even if my judgement was flawed at times I always knew what I was doing I don't know you from a hole in the ground but I think you would still have that love for her and could look beyond something she did that didn't please you.Of course I would still love her but thats a betrayal that is very hard to get past... and i cant believe you consider cheating as "something that she did that displeased you" it's a little more serious than displeasure
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you fucking cocksucker!!!! I was waiting for that to surface


i fuckign hate you :icon_evil
 
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