Lost Erection Confessions

FAngel

I Drink YOUR Milkshake!
Mar 2, 2005
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I'm really opening the floodgates for tooling on this one, so have away if you feel the need to.

My girlfriend and I have been together for several months, which is long enough to mean something to me in my short life. I've never been more attracted to someone before, everything is fantastic, blah blah blah, eat my asshole. To summarize, we're happy together.

Unfortunately, there have been a couple occasions - I can think of five - where during sex, regardless of whether or not she has already orgasmed (doesn't take much at all for her, that's another reason she's great), I lost my rod. I'm extremely lucky that she's been rational and understanding about the whole thing, and didn't kick my ass to the curb as soon as it happened the first time, especially considering she had gone almost two years without sex before we met.

This happened once with an ex girlfriend years ago, and there were a few circumstances because of it. Basically, there was someone lurking outside the door as we were fucking, and before I was able to do anything, we were immediately interrupted by her mother. So now, whenever there's a remote chance that we may be barged in on by somebody in the same house, let alone the next room, I get stage fright.

My question is this-- does this go back to the first time it happened, and the simple reason I can't stay relaxed and concentrate on her is because of the potential for interruption? Or am I being delusional and is there something else wrong with me? I'm 22 fucking years old; the last thing I need is to be asking for Viagra. I am moving into my own place next week, and I'm hoping that will be the correction I need for this problem.
 

BaLZaC~308

ONE OF THE COOL KIDS
Sep 27, 2006
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#2
do you take any anti depression meds? Are you extremely stressed about anything?
 

BravoSierra

Why do people keep calling me?
Jun 27, 2005
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#3
Even after 2 beers... I feel slightly buzzed, but if I bone the wife, I can't seal the deal on my end. My wiener is funky.
 

FAngel

I Drink YOUR Milkshake!
Mar 2, 2005
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#4
do you take any anti depression meds? Are you extremely stressed about anything?
No meds of any sort aside from multivitamins. I didn't even drink until one week ago when she got a few in me for entertainment's sake (we had sex the next day if that matters). As for stress, the only thing I can really think of right now is moving into the place. I still don't have a job lined up, even though that's not too big of a deal because I've got more than enough money saved up that I can float for a little bit.
 

d0uche_n0zzle

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Sep 15, 2004
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#5
At twenty-two I was banging my chick at least two to three times a night and never lost a rod.
 

Hudson

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#7
put a bag over her head.....eloel!!!!
Actually, try Chinese or Tibetian Ginsing along with your vitamins...
Dude, I think it is Psycho-Somatic...when you live alone I bet you will have a raging hard on 3/4 of the day
 

NikkorTheMonk

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Apr 26, 2005
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#8
Had a full physical lately? Any history of prostate problems in the family? Don't answer that here, just asking. Illitis? IBS? Maybe you just realized your ga....... Stop spanking it when she ain't around.
 

MDiaMAok

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Aug 8, 2007
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#9
shit, that happened to me just last night with my wife and im only 21. ive had it happen a few times. it sucks but it happens



could i have used "happen" more?
 

seeinred

White Death
Apr 29, 2007
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#10
If that walking in thing actually traumatized you, even a little bit, that could definitely have something to do with it. If it keeps happening I'd definitely see a urologist.
 

THE FEZ MAN

as a matter of fact i dont have 5$
Aug 23, 2002
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ummm, ive had whiskey dick on several occasions, blew my load one time not two pumps into a new girl one time too... boy was that embarrassing i made up for that one though, that girl is still on my greatest hits list.... as for now a couple of months ago i lost my rod in the middle of banging the old lady. i hid it though buy whipping out some of my glass dildos and finished her off. your lucky that you can get her off it takes forever for mine
 

Hudson

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#12
Not Gonna lie....only lost wood twice....once when a G/F's Black Lab was staring at us, the other, when I was fucking a woman I picked up at a bar and mid coitus, felt a tiny tongue licking my backdoor. It was her froo froo little dog.
 

THE FEZ MAN

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Not Gonna lie....only lost wood twice....once when a G/F's Black Lab was staring at us, the other, when I was fucking a woman I picked up at a bar and mid coitus, felt a tiny tongue licking my backdoor. It was her froo froo little dog.
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holy fucking shit, that was funny as hell. my old girlfriend had a little chihuahua that was always trying to nuzzle in when we were bumping uglies, more than one time i had to toss him out of the room to keep him from sniffing my ass
 

NikkorTheMonk

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Apr 26, 2005
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If your ass crack wasnt full of whip cream you might not have that problem...
 

cozzie

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Aug 7, 2005
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#15
lost a rod a few times, but thanks to the NSFW thread, i've gained a 1,000.
going there now, then to the jjo thread.



hell wacky wackbag is fun!
 

Hudson

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holy fucking shit, that was funny as hell. my old girlfriend had a little chihuahua that was always trying to nuzzle in when we were bumping uglies, more than one time i had to toss him out of the room to keep him from sniffing my ass
True Story....Rolled her over on me and smooshed it!.....oops!
 

MDiaMAok

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Aug 8, 2007
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#17
then again, maybe your gay. which is perfectly alright, itsjust how some people choose to live their life
 

Simby19

I want to have L'il Jimmy's babies
Aug 10, 2006
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#18
It's always fun to be the girl in this situation. Now not only are you all worked up BUT you have to stroke the guys ego (since that's all that can be stroked now) and put on an Oscar-worthy performance about how it's not a big deal. What a treat.
 

poppAwoody

C colon enter
May 23, 2006
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#19
I've had stage fright or maybe some whiskey dick in my days but lately its not even a thought, I guess once you settle down with the comfort in knowing you are always going to look like this then it dont matter but to get your dick wet
 

Creampier

I have to return some videotapes!
May 11, 2007
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#20
There was a couple of times when my girl was a few pounds heavier and ridin' cowgirl that I just couldn't keep filled up for the duration. But any other position it was fine, oddly enough!

I personally HATE the cowgirl position, but when we get into a decent groove, she SOAKS those sheets! That's the only reason I don't complain about it!
 
Dec 25, 2005
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#21
When I'm drunk I'll keep a rod, but can't get off. Used to piss off a few girlfriends.. but the goers got more than that fucking bargained for.

Love a good sport fuck.
 

Clint

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Jan 26, 2005
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holy fucking shit, that was funny as hell. my old girlfriend had a little chihuahua that was always trying to nuzzle in when we were bumping uglies, more than one time i had to toss him out of the room to keep him from sniffing my ass
You said bumping uglies. Hugh Hugh.

I was on Lexapro (anti-depressant) for a little bit and that is the only time I had the erection problem. Trying to explain to her that I'm depressed and can't keep a rod makes for an awkward moment.
 

bill333

Go Screw!
Mar 23, 2005
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#23
The mind is a powerful thing, so I just think your fears are working against you. You'll see when you get your own place.

I had a friends brother who "broke" his cock once and it scared the shit out of me, hearing the story. My girlfriend, at the time, was on top riding me and when my cock came out and and didn't go back in right ( kind of off to the left) and bent from her weight coming down, I froze because I thought it almost broke. I lost the wood and that was that for the day because I couldn't get that fear of pain out of my head. I did after that day but you get the gist.

"You're gonna' be OK! You're gonna be OK! Say the goddamn words!" "SAY IT!!"
 

CM Mark

The East is Ours!
Apr 13, 2005
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#24
honestly, sometimes I lose m y wood while spanking it. But that's mainly when I am questioning my sanity, and wondering if there really is a point to spanking it
 

Dikbag

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Dec 11, 2004
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#25
Even after 2 beers... I feel slightly buzzed, but if I bone the wife, I can't seal the deal on my end. My wiener is funky.
I can never finish when drinking either, Only other times I've lost my rod was when I attempt a second round, that doesn't work to often.