Do any of you find that when you and your wife have sex there is some kind of effect on your sleeping children? Allow me to explain the phenomenon I'm asking about. So, my wife and I had sexy time last night. It is not uncommon to be interrupted by a waking child. My daughter is so fucking quiet, she sometimes makes it all the way into the room before we notice (fortunately it's usually dark and she's barely awake enough to process what's going on around her). Last night it was the toddler waking up and crying. We don't have a problem settling them, but here's the thing. It seems 9 times out of 10 we end up having a horrible night's sleep after hooking up because the kids seem to be very wakeful, have nightmares, or are just generally weird on nights when my wife and I are intimate. It doesn't matter if they woke up during the act or not. We can do a pretty nice job on each other and then drift into peaceful post-coital sleep only to be disturbed an hour or so later by the kids. Does anyone else know what I'm talking about? Is there some kind of strange energy force being disturbed when parents fire up the baby-makers? Am I crazy?