So, say you got the invite to the party of the year..no not the rocka hula thing..the wedding. It's real, I mean Arch got invited on air. How much real money should one give. Usually, I'm sure to cover the cost of the meal. What happens if a wedding is sponsored and I imagine there not being a meal at this one. Does one give a C-note? Instead of cash would a Macy's gift card for 2 bills be appropriate?