Thanks for the input boys. I like Razor Roman's explanation.
Oh, and I don't like being called Mel. Anthony HAAATES when I'm called Mel. He will rip you a new hole if he hears ya do it. But don't go calling me Baby either lol The nickname I've always had since a lil tyke is Min. Feel free to call me by whatever color my hair is though- they used to do that when I worked in an office. One friend called me Mellin (not like melon, put the accent on the "in"). Feel free to make up your own nickname for me so we can have a "special connection" tee hee